Hi, I’m Nicholas
I coach midlife professionals who feel stuck, overworked, or undervalued to create lives aligned with their values —filled with freedom, purpose, and connection.
My journey started far from where I am today.
Growing up in a blue-collar family in rural Pennsylvania, I faced a turbulent home life.
By my late teens, I was unhoused, caught in the chaos of the late '90s East Coast rave scene, numbing my pain with club drugs, alcohol and sex.
A pivotal “near-life moment” forced me to confront my reality and begin the difficult process of reclaiming my sanity, sovereignty, and self-respect.
I rebuilt my life step by step, earning degrees in NYC, launching a business in my late 20s, teaching at universities, and building a 13-year career in big tech throughout my 30s and 40s.
From the outside, it looked like I had it all.
The wife, the house, the car, the savings, the 401k, the healthcare, the toys…
But beneath the surface, I wasn’t well - racked with anxiety, sleep disorders and gut health issues.
I was stuck, out of alignment and no longer thriving…
Why I Coach Other Ambitious Midlife Professionals?
I’ve seen first hand how corporate culture can trap even the most talented professionals in comfort zones that stifle their potential.
High-pressure workplaces and the allure of golden handcuffs pull many further from the impact and fulfillment they truly desire.
When I finally hit my own breaking point, another “near-life moment” reminded me it was time to realign my life and rebuild again.
By clarifying what truly mattered, crafting a plan, and getting the support I needed to follow through, I reclaimed control, aligned my work with my values, and created a life of purpose…on purpose.
But I didn’t do it alone.
Now, I’m dedicated to helping others do the same.
What Kind of Life Feels Out of Reach for You?
The life I live today —connected with nature, myself, and others— once felt impossible to me.
Now, I live in Colorado with my wife and two cats, soaking in the magic of the Rocky Mountains.
I dedicate my days to service, personal growth, and helping others navigate their own transformation.
If you’re longing for a life that feels out of reach, I can help you find your path there
Hear more about my own journey
I regularly contribute to podcasts and articles, sharing hard-earned insights from over a decade of surviving—and thriving—in high-pressure environments. I speak candidly about mental health, well-being, and conscious leadership, offering actionable advice and real-world perspectives.
*Spoiler alert: I don’t hold back.
How We Can Work Together
Curious about what coaching with me is like?
Vist the Coach With Me page for more information on packages and options.
If you’re not ready to jump in the deep end with me just yet, I invite you to join my growing community of over 11 thousand rebellious professionals on my Quiet Rebellion mailing-list, Linkedin, and in the Changing Work Collective.